So nervous for tomorrow :/

[3 ladybugs]

Oh no!! I am so sorry to see this. Has your doctor talked to you about doing a d&c so you can at least test the child and see if you have any hidden potential problems?

I hope you can go into another cycle very soon!

[snugglesnsunshine]

I'm so sorry. Sending prayers your way. Take care of yourself.

[stevensmom]

Originally Posted by swrlgrl105 baby stopped growing at 6 weeks... still no heartbeat..its over.. the Dr said it could take up to a month for my hormone #s to fall enough to pass it I feel like Im in hell

I'm so sorry sweetie

[sarahann15]

So sorry for your loss

[swrlgrl105]

Originally Posted by 3 ladybugs Oh no!! I am so sorry to see this. Has your doctor talked to you about doing a d&c so you can at least test the child and see if you have any hidden potential problems? I hope you can go into another cycle very soon!

Im just now seeing this. They gave me the option of a D&C but strongly reccommended letting my body do it naturally to avoid surgery unless it becomes necessary. We will be monitoring my levels each friday until I am neg. I will see where they are this coming friday the 21st. If I were to do a D&C they said we would have to wait at least 3 months for my lining to build totally back up but if we let it happen naturally, we can try right away as long as all is passed and my labs are baseline.... so im really hoping my body figures it out soon and gets it over with.

I keep wishing that the machine was just crappy quality and wrong but im sure it wasnt. To make matters worse, some girl I work with just announced all over Facebook that she is pregnant... doesnt even go in until tomorrow to find out her due date and SHE IS STILL SMOKING!!
People like that piss me off so bad. They dont realize how good they have it and take it for granted but their babies always come out unscathed, where I have to work my butt off to get pregnant and do everythig by the book plus a ton of extra and I still loose it I could just cry right now

[swrlgrl105]

and thank you everyone. The support means a lot ... my rainbow baby cant come soon enough

[3 ladybugs]

Originally Posted by swrlgrl105 Im just now seeing this. They gave me the option of a D&C but strongly reccommended letting my body do it naturally to avoid surgery unless it becomes necessary. We will be monitoring my levels each friday until I am neg. I will see where they are this coming friday the 21st. If I were to do a D&C they said we would have to wait at least 3 months for my lining to build totally back up but if we let it happen naturally, we can try right away as long as all is passed and my labs are baseline.... so im really hoping my body figures it out soon and gets it over with. I keep wishing that the machine was just crappy quality and wrong but im sure it wasnt. To make matters worse, some girl I work with just announced all over Facebook that she is pregnant... doesnt even go in until tomorrow to find out her due date and SHE IS STILL SMOKING!! People like that piss me off so bad. They dont realize how good they have it and take it for granted but their babies always come out unscathed, where I have to work my butt off to get pregnant and do everythig by the book plus a ton of extra and I still loose it I could just cry right now

Umm I don't want to say your RE is wrong, but I have a bouncing 4 year old that is proof that you don't have to wait 3 months after a D&C to TTC again. I got the D&C for my "Baby D" (miscarried at 9 weeks, found out at 10) on September 27, 2007; my levels finally went to >5 at the beginning of December; did full IVF starting stims on January 4 (was on long lupron protocol), got pregnant with DS and and delivered him on September 26, 2008 (2 weeks early on purpose). NO lining issues what so ever. I can even look up my lining levels if you want.

I am sorry to hear about your co-worker. Some people really shouldn't procreate.

[swrlgrl105]

Originally Posted by 3 ladybugs Umm I don't want to say your RE is wrong, but I have a bouncing 4 year old that is proof that you don't have to wait 3 months after a D&C to TTC again. I got the D&C for my "Baby D" (miscarried at 9 weeks, found out at 10) on September 27, 2007; my levels finally went to >5 at the beginning of December; did full IVF starting stims on January 4 (was on long lupron protocol), got pregnant with DS and and delivered him on September 26, 2008 (2 weeks early on purpose). NO lining issues what so ever. I can even look up my lining levels if you want. I am sorry to hear about your co-worker. Some people really shouldn't procreate.

I just called becasue I had a feeling I got misinformation from a nurse who said 3 months. I spoke to my primary nurse and she said that the rish with D&C is very low, So thats good news. She said if I wanted to get one asap that is fine and if I didnt bleed on my own in a couple of weeks she would urge me to get one. I think at this point I may just do it to emotionally get it over with and get on with my life and TTC again asap. She told me that after the D&C, once my beta was negitive, we would do baseline labs and as long as i am baseline they can start prepping me for a FET. By the sounds of it I dont need an additional period?

[snugglesnsunshine]

I just wanted to say you've been on my mind a lot since last week. Just sorry for your loss and glad you have a plan for a rainbow soon.

[swrlgrl105]

Originally Posted by snugglesnsunshine I just wanted to say you've been on my mind a lot since last week. Just sorry for your loss and glad you have a plan for a rainbow soon.

thnk you so much