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Old 01-28-2013, 09:32 AM   #1
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I am in the process of losing a very surprise, but wanted pregnancy. We had been preventing and were really surprised but very excited at the thought of one last baby to complete our family when we found out recently. I know there is no way we will try for another child and this is making me really struggle with the peace I had previously made with being "done". I dreamed of our baby last night, a sweet baby girl who looked like her big sister but with her Daddy's blue eyes. She had the most beautiful name, one that I wouldn't have thought of but seemed so right. I woke up this morning bleeding heavily and cramping. I am so heartbroken.

My dh will still be going ahead with a vasectomy soon and while he would have happily welcomed this surprise and is a bit disappointed.. he wants to be done. No more babies for us. It seems so unfair to have this dangled in front of me and then ripped away. I am praying that I can cope with loss in the face of knowing that another child will never be.

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Old 01-28-2013, 09:44 AM   #2
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I am so sorry
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I'm so sorry. That has to be so emotional for you ((hugs)) Prayers for peace in this situation.
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I'm so sorry, mama!
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oh no mama. my heart breaks for you. it seems your heart is calling for another and I would hope your hubby reconsiders for a bit.
in the meantime, many hugs
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Thank you for the kindness mamas. I have spent most the day crying until my head hurt. I ended up sharing the sad news with my very closest friends and my mom today and their loving support has helped so much. Dh and I are both very sad and spending the evening snuggling our 5 sweet kiddos. I think DH was surprised by his own feelings honestly when we did some talking and grieving today. I feel less alone*but it doesn't change that the baby is gone and I feel so empty.
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oh no mama. my heart breaks for you. it seems your heart is calling for another and I would hope your hubby reconsiders for a bit.
in the meantime, many hugs
exactly what I would have said...so sorry for your loss!!
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