Diaper Swappers

cdeweese · 02-21-2013, 06:56 PM

So I'm posting this here because it's a transaction outside of DS.

Ok, so I'm having something made by a very well known WAHM. I paid the deposit in early January and was told that she'd keep me updated. Well I hadn't heard anything at all so I contacted her on Feb 10 (maybe the 9th) and asked if everything was ok. She responded on the 10th saying she had gotten behind and it should be done by the end of the week. I haven't heard back since. I REALLY don't want to bug her and I don't need the item right now, but I feel like she's screwing me time wise. She is still selling customs spots every week and I honestly feel like she just forgot to start my project. So what would you do? Like I said, I really would just like a pic or something to show me she has at least started it. FWIW, I've had another WAHM make me two outfits in the last week (more labor intensive items) and had constant updates the entire time. Sorry, I'm just a little frustrated that I'm paying a decent amount of $ and having to wait a long time with absolutely no updates.

danner · 02-21-2013, 07:11 PM

I'd probably let her know that it was time for the item to be done and that if she intended to keep putting me off, she should issue a refund.

If I really wanted the stuff, I'd nudge her and tell her you were trying to be patient, but you really need it by _x_ date, and does that still fit her current schedule.

blueberriis · 02-22-2013, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by danner

I'd probably let her know that it was time for the item to be done and that if she intended to keep putting me off, she should issue a refund.

If I really wanted the stuff, I'd nudge her and tell her you were trying to be patient, but you really need it by _x_ date, and does that still fit her current schedule.

I'd agree with the above with the nudging. Also, request that she give you weekly updates. You're paying her. The least she could do is keep you informed. If she doesn't or gives you a hard time, f**k her and get your money back. There are so many other WAHMs that would love your patronage!

qsefthuko · 02-22-2013, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by danner

I'd probably let her know that it was time for the item to be done and that if she intended to keep putting me off, she should issue a refund.

If I really wanted the stuff, I'd nudge her and tell her you were trying to be patient, but you really need it by _x_ date, and does that still fit her current schedule.

I agree with this.

jeebee · 02-22-2013, 06:11 AM

I would also just say I need it by X date, and if she can't do that to please give you a refund as you need to buy something else. Be polite though! I have actually been in this situation before as a wahm, just accepted too many jobs and then got sick and couldn't get them done as quickly as I had originally told customers. Fortunately I told people right away that things would be delayed and everybody was very understanding. I find it a bit sad that she hasn't updated you, communication is key!

jeebee · 02-22-2013, 06:11 AM

I would also just say I need it by X date, and if she can't do that to please give you a refund as you need to buy something else. Be polite though! I have actually been in this situation before as a wahm, just accepted too many jobs and then got sick and couldn't get them done as quickly as I had originally told customers. Fortunately I told people right away that things would be delayed and everybody was very understanding. I find it a bit sad that she hasn't updated you, communication is key!

Nerissa · 02-22-2013, 06:37 AM

You are way more patient than I would be. I would be pissed espeically with the lack of communication and since she said they would be done by the end of the week (over a week ago) and nothing.

I would contact her and say you need the item by X date and if she can't deliver than just refund your money and then find an different WAHM that can make the item you want in a timely manner. I had this happen not to long ago and now will not buy from that WAHM again.

FWIW-- I am having some customs made from a great WAHM. She posted on her paige that some family things came up and was going to be slightly delayed. Since I am not needing my items right away I am fine with waiting. If she hadn't contacted me and it had been over a month I would not have been that understanding

02-21-2013, 06:56 PM	#1
cdeweese Registered Users Formerly: New cloth lover Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 1,257 Ratings: 56 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	What would you do? So I'm posting this here because it's a transaction outside of DS. Ok, so I'm having something made by a very well known WAHM. I paid the deposit in early January and was told that she'd keep me updated. Well I hadn't heard anything at all so I contacted her on Feb 10 (maybe the 9th) and asked if everything was ok. She responded on the 10th saying she had gotten behind and it should be done by the end of the week. I haven't heard back since. I REALLY don't want to bug her and I don't need the item right now, but I feel like she's screwing me time wise. She is still selling customs spots every week and I honestly feel like she just forgot to start my project. So what would you do? Like I said, I really would just like a pic or something to show me she has at least started it. FWIW, I've had another WAHM make me two outfits in the last week (more labor intensive items) and had constant updates the entire time. Sorry, I'm just a little frustrated that I'm paying a decent amount of $ and having to wait a long time with absolutely no updates. __________________ Cindy wife to B Mommy to C 3/10 and S 3/11 Cautiously Expecting! My ISO/IHA: http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/....php?t=1464852

02-21-2013, 07:11 PM	#2
danner Registered Users Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Orchard Park, WNY Posts: 6,827 Ratings: 72 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	I'd probably let her know that it was time for the item to be done and that if she intended to keep putting me off, she should issue a refund. If I really wanted the stuff, I'd nudge her and tell her you were trying to be patient, but you really need it by _x_ date, and does that still fit her current schedule. __________________ Danielle, Nick, Gigi ('08) and William (7/11) Happy Family

02-22-2013, 06:11 AM	#5
jeebee Registered Users Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 6,770 Ratings: 32 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: What would you do? I would also just say I need it by X date, and if she can't do that to please give you a refund as you need to buy something else. Be polite though! I have actually been in this situation before as a wahm, just accepted too many jobs and then got sick and couldn't get them done as quickly as I had originally told customers. Fortunately I told people right away that things would be delayed and everybody was very understanding. I find it a bit sad that she hasn't updated you, communication is key! __________________ Jen=mummy to L and S and A, my birthday thief. Australian WAHM behind . I refund any excess shipping payment to overseas customers as it is hard to calculate using Etsy, for exact rates please convo me Pure Nappiness on FB

02-22-2013, 06:11 AM	#6
jeebee Registered Users Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 6,770 Ratings: 32 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: What would you do? I would also just say I need it by X date, and if she can't do that to please give you a refund as you need to buy something else. Be polite though! I have actually been in this situation before as a wahm, just accepted too many jobs and then got sick and couldn't get them done as quickly as I had originally told customers. Fortunately I told people right away that things would be delayed and everybody was very understanding. I find it a bit sad that she hasn't updated you, communication is key! __________________ Jen=mummy to L and S and A, my birthday thief. Australian WAHM behind . I refund any excess shipping payment to overseas customers as it is hard to calculate using Etsy, for exact rates please convo me Pure Nappiness on FB

02-22-2013, 06:37 AM	#7
Nerissa Registered Users Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: small town USA Posts: 3,435 Ratings: 60 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: What would you do? You are way more patient than I would be. I would be pissed espeically with the lack of communication and since she said they would be done by the end of the week (over a week ago) and nothing. I would contact her and say you need the item by X date and if she can't deliver than just refund your money and then find an different WAHM that can make the item you want in a timely manner. I had this happen not to long ago and now will not buy from that WAHM again. FWIW-- I am having some customs made from a great WAHM. She posted on her paige that some family things came up and was going to be slightly delayed. Since I am not needing my items right away I am fine with waiting. If she hadn't contacted me and it had been over a month I would not have been that understanding __________________ wife and mom ~If you see a bunch of types I am probably NAK on my tablet in the middle of the night. Please excuse them.