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Old 02-27-2013, 02:41 PM   #1
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My fiance and I have been through 2 unplanned (NTNP) pregnancies both resulting in miscarriages (6.5 weeks in 2/12 and 9 weeks 11/12).
We are planning on a anniversary wedding in May and originally wanted to wait until September to start trying for various reasons.
It's getting harder and harder to think that we have another 9 months to go, especially this last miscarriage so I'm considering proposing TTCing as soon as the honeymoon. Since I've already had 2 miscarriages, I feel like it may not be so easy of a road to conceive and maintain our next pregnancy either, and starting early would give us more time, if that makes any sense. My question is, have any mamas out there TTC'ed earlier than planned to help the grief of a miscarriage?

Thoughts? Stories? Advice?


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Old 02-27-2013, 02:52 PM   #2
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Re: Any young-planned mamas after unplanned miscarriages?

Well this isn't exactly what you are asking, but I conceived my two girls when I was young (21 and 23) with no issues but now we've been ttc since I was 25 and now I'm 29 and no luck (we did get pg in Nov, but lost the baby) so I say start as early as possible. I felt very strongly that it was the time for us to start ttc, even though my dh was in school and so was I and we had no money, but now looking back I think if I would have waited I wouldn't have my two precious girls.
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