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Old 12-03-2012, 02:32 PM   #1
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Would it bother you if baby was born on dh's x birthday?

Dh thinks I am over reacting...Baby is due 12/5. His x wife(of 13 years) birthday is 12/5. Obviously if baby comes than I will accept it, but I certainly hope that it will not be that day. Am I odd?

BTW, there are no hard feelings or anger between each other. Just would rather baby have his own day...

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Old 12-03-2012, 02:38 PM   #2
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Yes, I completely agree w everything. It would bother me also
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Old 12-03-2012, 02:40 PM   #3
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I think it would bug me but I'd be okay if it happened on that day and make it his day not dweal on the x's
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Old 12-03-2012, 02:55 PM   #4
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I went into labor only July 5th. July 5th and 6th would have been shared birthdays with people I can't stand because they are so nasty to others. I had my son 12:17 am on July 7th. I swear subconsciously I couldn't relax enough to have a baby those days. Midnight hit and all the sudden the baby shifted and we got a move on lol.

I wouldn't worry too much. Chances for a baby on your due date are slim.
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Old 12-03-2012, 02:56 PM   #5
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Re: Would it bother you if baby was born on dh's x birthday?

I'm glad to hear that I am not odd in my feelings. Of course I would accept it and and make it his day. Not trying to dwell as it isn't even an issue yet, but dh just doesn't get it.

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Yea I would also hope baby wasn't born the 5th

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I don't want my kids to share a birthday with anyone! I was freaking out I gave birth at 10:58pm and midnight would have been MIL bday.
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No, I really wouldn't care. But then again, my DH has never been previously married and we've been together since 19. My feelings may be different it I were in your shoes.
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Not me. I don't really care. I just pray not to have 12/12/12. Only because everyone else wants that date. LOL
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Not me. I don't really care. I just pray not to have 12/12/12. Only because everyone else wants that date. LOL
I think that would be a cool bday

but I know what you mean...dd is Sept 11th and I always get "ohhh" when I say when her bday is
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