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Get help. I wish we'd done it sooner. He is miserable too. He's always in trouble and just can't help it. It breaks my heart. It's stressful on all of us. There is help when they are little and the therapist on the phone told me that the sooner, the better. If y'all are interested on follow up, I can tell you what comes of Monday. |
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Re: Please tell me about your tubals!
Sorry to be the odd man out,but my tubal caused my periods to be HORRIFIC.
I had c-sections. I had to take shots to avoid miscarrying my 3rd. I had no reserves left for carry baby and had to take shots of vitamins to replete my body. It was a VERY hard pregnancy. I had a 1 & 3 yr old to take care of and DS2 was like the ones ya are talking about. I had tubes tied because Dr said he refused to deliver another baby and I would have to go to high risk Dr. He described uterine rupture and the odds of the baby surviving was nil to none and the odds of the mother dyeing from the blood loss was almost 100%. Scared me to think that I would be responsible for killing my baby and leave my children motherless. I agreed to have the tubal. I nursed DD for almost a year, then period started... Oh true horrific pain. After 3 years of having a period every 14 days and bleeding for 10 days in a row with 4 days inbetween the end and beginning of cycles my iron was gone. I would wear a super plus tampon and an overnight pad and the first 6-7 days, I would fill both up to leaking within 15-20 minutes. I would sit with my back against the sink cabinet, throwing up in toilet because the pain was so bad, for days, having no energy to move. This went on for a year and new ob/gyn said I needed a hysterectomy. My sister had a tubal 12 years after me and her periods were the same as mine, bleed super heavy for 10-14 days in a row, off a week and start for another 10-14 days of heavy bleeding. The only thing that stopped her bleeding, like me, was a hysterectomy. We both had super light periods for 3 days of regular blood flow, then a couple days of light discharge. My gyn said he sees this kind of bleeding after a tubal quite often. Just thought is tell you how ours were. If I had to do it again, there is NO way I would have had a tubal. |
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I've had 3 c sections, the first 2 were emergency and the last was scheduled, so I opted to have the tubal then. Almost immediately, I felt MUCH more pain than normal. Its been 21 months since my tubal, and I spend half the month bleeding. I'm now anemic, where I have never had a problem with iron in my entire life. The cramps are HORRIFIC... the first 2 days of my period, I can't do a thing except pop pain reliever and lay down. My DH has missed at least one day of work a month because of this. I have such a heavy period, I can soak through a super plus tampon in half an hour. Its gotten so bad, I can't even use tampons anymore, because they are so expensive when you are changing them every half hour. I literally have to set an alarm and change an overnight pad at about 3am, otherwise I will wake up with my bed looking like the ending of a horror film. My period lasts a week, and then for another week, it flip flops between spotting and random clots and spurts of blood. I really only have one week a month that I'm not spotting or passing anything. It was NEVER like this before - I had a 4 day period, not terribly heavy and so regular, you could set your watch by it! I now have facial hair sprouting up in random places... I'm only 28!! I honestly have not felt like my normal self, since I had the tubal. I get night sweats, and I feel "off" most of the time. And to top it all off - I got pregnant last year, but lost the pregnancy at about 7 weeks. PLEASE PLEASE research Tubal Syndrome before you decide. I had someone tell me about it, and I rolled my eyes and blew them off because I'd heard so many people that had no problem. I'm really wishing I had listened now, because I'm absolutely miserable ![]() |
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