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Old 04-27-2006, 03:51 PM   #21
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Kaela,

I know you're not the only one that has a DH that says things that aren't the nicest...I think we all have that situation. It's so hard sometimes not to take out our frustration on those we love and at times the words can say what we're feeling in ways that hurt each other.

It's great to hear that you are understanding how he's feeling (stressed, anxious, frustrated) and are putting that into perspective so that you don't allow that comment to hurt you too deeply. I'm glad to hear that it sounds like he didn't mean to say something hurtful- because I know of jerk men that do and women who are badly in need of emotional healing.

I think the most important part is giving yourself permission to say, I'm not going to accept that comment. Although you can't stop someone from saying something, we have the power to accept it or reject it in our hearts.

Hugs from another 'ready to drop and pop' mama!

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Old 04-27-2006, 05:51 PM   #22
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I am another one who thinks he should consider himself lucky that he's getting, well, lucky!! I was in so much pain during my last month this time that sex was lower on the agenda than a visit to the dentist.

Thank goodness things get better after the baby is born (though not right after!!)
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Old 04-27-2006, 07:05 PM   #23
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I was chasing my DH around at about 37 weeks - but I DEFINITLEY was putting ZERO effort in it and he understood. LOL
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Old 04-27-2006, 07:33 PM   #24
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He's so lucky he's gettin' any at all! My poor DH-The last time we had sex is when I got pregnant-and I'm 29 weeks!!!!! Same thing when I was preg w/ ds. I can't imagine havin sex w/ this big ol' belly!!!!! We co-sleep too-and I don't think we'll fit on the couch anymore!
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lol my dh took what he could get when I was pg. That's funny! Good for you that you're still "active" though!
my dh too!! lol!! He was happy just to get it, I had horrible morning sickness for the first 6 months I rarely wanted to do it, but when I did he was ready! lol!
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Old 04-29-2006, 10:31 AM   #26
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Re: DH got mad at me because...

we did have some pretty great sex toward the end, but it WAS funny a lot too. my problem was that i think i didn't really "get' how big my belly was and that it really was getting in the way. we'd try a position and dh kept having to be like - "sorry honey - it's just not going to work" (he just couldn't contort himself enough to get in close enough....and i'm like "why not?"

hope you & your dh have smoothed things over.
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Old 04-29-2006, 11:29 PM   #27
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OMG kiss my butt. MY reposnse to DH would be see if you get the great blow job you are used to after I birth, OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH i hold a grudge and this is a prome example






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Old 04-30-2006, 05:38 PM   #28
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DH tends to avoid me near the end as it has sent me into labor with both of our dd's.

Im just shy of stalking him now 'cause I want this pregnancy over.

Hugs to you for dh's stupid comment.
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Old 04-30-2006, 06:12 PM   #29
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LOL!!! DH said it is too hard for him to have sex with me right now. The tummy puts a dmaper on it since he is worried about crushing me....
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LOL!!! DH said it is too hard for him to have sex with me right now. The tummy puts a dmaper on it since he is worried about crushing me....

Then he needs to get creative
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