who else here doesn't get preg easy??

[deejahd]

It took us 3 years and 3 m/c to have DS (2-28-04) and with this pregnancy we never used BC after my DS was born and they will be over 2.5 years apart. It's a heart wrenching process...but sooo worth it!

[bobandjess99]

i have PCOS and do not ovulate without medication.
it took us 4 years to get dd.

[Fuzzi Fannies Creations]

Me me me... wish I weren't saying that.. but me.. I have been ttc for 11 months, had a mc in March and it just seems to be no end to af.. I am actually due to start tomorrow.. but have bfn's for three days.. ack!

We all need lots of baby dust on this thread!!!!

[Shay]

I have been TTC for 9 yrs so I can say it takes me a while to get pregnant.

[GrowingUpMad]

This may sound totally selfish but hey, it's true. I am one of those that does not get preggers easily. There is 7 1/2 years between #1 and #2, never used bc, tried off an on and then gave up (of course then I got preggers). There will be exactly 4 years between #2 and #3 and I was trying for 11 months. I find out I am preggers and I am thrilled to death. Then a "friend" finds out she is pregnant and due 4 weeks after me (of course she's telling everyone that she's now due the same week as me). I was so upset by this news. Here I try and try for a baby. I am married, financially stable and totally ready for #3 and she is single (just broke up with the father), has 2 special needs kids, lives off welfare and was smoking pot. Why? Why does she get 3 kids in 3 years and I have to pray every night and go through 2ww for a BFN? I know it's selfish and I'm sorry but sometimes it doesn't seem fair.

[janelyb]

Originally Posted by madalexsmom This may sound totally selfish but hey, it's true. I am one of those that does not get preggers easily. There is 7 1/2 years between #1 and #2, never used bc, tried off an on and then gave up (of course then I got preggers). There will be exactly 4 years between #2 and #3 and I was trying for 11 months. I find out I am preggers and I am thrilled to death. Then a "friend" finds out she is pregnant and due 4 weeks after me (of course she's telling everyone that she's now due the same week as me). I was so upset by this news. Here I try and try for a baby. I am married, financially stable and totally ready for #3 and she is single (just broke up with the father), has 2 special needs kids, lives off welfare and was smoking pot. Why? Why does she get 3 kids in 3 years and I have to pray every night and go through 2ww for a BFN? I know it's selfish and I'm sorry but sometimes it doesn't seem fair.

I can totally relate!!! I get fustrated with people definately IMO, do not need more kids due to their financial or life situation but yet it happens for them anyways. My hopes for her would be to turn her life around and get off the drugs....does she know that smoking pot is harmful to her unborn baby??? People..uggghhh

[rowynne]

I'm not sure if I "qualify" for this It took 3mos off bcps to get pg with #1 & #2, but for #3 we had 3 m/c's and it took a year & fertility drugs & progesterone to get & stay pg with her. There are 2.5yrs between my first 2 kids & almost 4yrs between the 2nd & 3rd. Not sure if we will have a 4th...I think the last time scared dh a bit. I had to have 2 D&Cs with the last one emergency laparoscopy too.